Friday, May 30, 2014

Gracing the Hope and Joy of Waiting - Hope Chest Treasures

A friend of mine blogged this morning that she titled, “Dreaming & Planning for the Future – Items to Put in a HopeChest.”  I started to comment on her blog and pretty soon found that she had inspired me so much that I had quite written a whole blog post myself and so, decided to add it here on my Inspirations of My Heart blog.

I had a hope chest once. For my birthday one year when I was in high school, my mom bought me a large whicker chest. I didn’t have a real large variety of items in it when I got married, but what I did have was special.  What I had was a large set of dishes that I had fun getting piece by piece. They were a grocery store marketing set from A.J. Bayless. For every so much money a customer spent, they would get a stamp that you would affix to a card. When you filled up the card, you could get a dinner plate, a cup and saucer. I had collected a set of about 12.



It was so enjoyable to watch my collection grow over time. However, after I was married, my mother had given me her large Pfaltzgraff tea rose set and I had lost interest in the tulip design of the dishes I had collected. My mother-in-law seemed to really love the dishes, so, I took them to her on my first trip to Mexico with my new husband.

The other item I remember having in my hope chest was a letter written by my mom to my future husband. It was a very sweet letter and I still have it. She wrote it when I was in baking a lemon meringue pie for my Home Ec class when I was in Junior High. I guess this will give you an idea just how hopelessly sentimental I am!

After I was married, my mom gave me many things that she no longer used as did a few of the older sisters from our church. And, as time went on, the Lord has provided all the things that I needed and so much more!

Today, I am feeling somewhat melancholy – maybe even a bit weepy. You see, today my baby has turned 13 – no longer a child. I am now the mother of one adult and three teenagers. However, I am counting my blessings today because the Lord has blessed me tremendously with these awesome and wonderful young people who I still call… my children!!! They are so diverse from one another, yet so much fun and they bring me such joy!

Among these, the Lord has blessed me to be the mother of three lovely daughters. My oldest has a hope chest as well. She uses an old beat up green trunk that we have stored in the garage. My next daughter has been storing items in a drawer for the time being and my youngest doesn’t have one… yet.

I have thought about what items should be in a hope chest. I suppose certain factors such as how much room you have to store items would influence what you would collect. There is a family that is very dear to me that my family and I like to visit. They always go so completely out of their way to really made us feel so welcome and loved! One evening their children and mine all but kicked me and their mother out of the kitchen and so, she and I decided to go to town and have our OWN adventures shopping. When we came home, the house was filled with tantalizing, mouth watering smells, and the table! The table was set for all 14 of us and lovingly, beautifully placed with one of their daughter’s fine china that she has been collecting for her hope chest. Her china doesn’t fit in her hope chest which is an old steamer trunk that she and her dad lined. She keeps in in a big plastic bin. Her china wasn’t very fancy, but it was very elegant and I decided then, that if I can, I would like to see my daughters be able to have a china set for their hope chests… even if it doesn’t fit! I’m still working on that one.

Among other necessary basic items that would be needed to start a home, I have listed some ideas to grace the hope and joy of waiting for that very special day:

v    A china set J
v    Very special family heirlooms
v    Handmade items such as
o      a crocheted doily
o      needlework
o      a quilt
o      pillowcases
o      aprons
v    Pictures for my daughters to start their own scrapbook albums
v    An organized recipe book with recipes handed down from family members or simply the tried and true recipes we use often in our family
v    Even special items for their future children.
o      I have a rubber maid box for each of my children containing a few clothes that they wore when they were babies, their blankies, etc. My mom had saved some of the clothes that I had wore and I thought it was so special to put them on my own babies. I still have my clothes, and, someday, I may part them out to each of my children for their children.

o      I have been finding particular books that have been extra special to me when I was young to give to them so that they may teach their children diligently the way in which they should go. 




Monday, May 19, 2014

Another GREAT Math Resource

I just received an email from my mom who always sends me the most interesting and helpful information. The email contained a YouTube link for a wonderful math video from MindYourDecisions for multiplying numbers quickly. If there is a visual learner in your home, you'll want to check this out! In my side bar under "Math Links" I have listed the link to all the videos from "Mind Your Decisions". I haven't seen them all, so I couldn't tell you how helpful the other videos are.

Math Trick Multiply Using Lines

Also, here is the blog for Mind Your Decisions: Mind Your Decisions.



Wednesday, April 30, 2014

What Difference Does it Make?

I pray that this little post will just be an encouragement to all of you beautiful, lovely maidens of the Lord to continue to strive for the very best. 

Have you ever read a choose-your-own story? Well, life is like that. You are placed on this earth with free moral agency as our prophet told us - the freedom to make our own choices, good or bad. In the next paragraphs I have written a fun choose-your-own story. Just read the paragraph, make a decision and then follow the directions scrolling down to the correlating choice that you make. Although I trust that each of you wouldn't DREAM of making the wrong choices, feel free to go back and read what would have happened if you had made the wrong choices. Enjoy reading  :)

INITIAL SCENARIO:
Your mother will be in town all day grocery shopping and running errands and entrusts you with a list of tasks she needs you to do around the house:
            *Do the breakfast dishes
            *Dust the living room
            *Clean the fridge
            *Clean the bathrooms
            *Keep the laundry going
            *Thoroughly clean your room

After your eyes pop out at the “mile long” list she gave you, you reluctantly wave your sweet darling mother off and proceed to conquer the tasks that lie ahead.

Now you’re alone… just you and the walls and those chores AND the Lord who is watching to see what you will do. You are faced with a choice: do the chores or not do them. If you choose to NOT do them, skip ahead to SCENE 2. If you DO choose to do your chores, skip down to SCENE 3 This is kind of a choose-your-own story in case you didn’t notice.

SCENE 2
You’re mother would all but take your life if you didn’t do those chores, so this really wasn’t an option so get yourself in gear to SCENE 3.

SCENE 3
Great choice! Now the next decision comes: do said chores immediately (considering there’s quite a few) or go do your “own thing” for a while and THEN do it. If you choose to get started right away go to SCENARIO 4. If you decide to go have some fun for a while, go to SCENARIO 5

SCENARIO 4
Again, you have made a wise choice! You roll your sleeves up, don your sturdiest apron, plug in your ipod, and like the honorable princess you are, you begin by applying your multi-tasking skills: getting the laundry going, then the dishwasher, spray down the showers and toilets and declare war on the mess in your room! However, your life is filled with decisions and you are about to make one very important decision: to stick with the job you are doing, OR perhaps that book lying in the corner is calling your name. If you choose stick to it, then go to DECISION A. If you can’t handle it anymore and you decide to take “five” and see what happens next in that great story then go to DECISION B.

SCENARIO 5
You decide that you have plenty of time since your mom will be in town for quite a while. So, you take out your phone and begin to text your bosom buddy, you sit down to the computer to take your turn on Chess, read the latest updates on Facebook, answer the phone that just rang while you were replying to your bosom buddy, and find yourself completely engrossed in conversation for the next several hours with another friend you haven’t heard from in a million years!

As you’re merrily talking, and wearing out a path in the floor from pacing back and forth, you happen to look up at the clock and start to panic. You have wasted quite a bit of your day and your mom will be home soon and nothing has gotten done. You quickly get off the chores and as fast as you can, you fly through the house to get everything done starting in your room cramming stuff in your drawers. A book falls on the floor. Now, go to ENDING 2.

DECISION A
That book is no temptation for a strong, determined maiden like you! Nope! You swipe up the book, blow the dust off and return it to it’s place. However, you are now faced with yet another decision and of even greater importance as before: done, completely and thoroughly, even if it means your life, OR cut corners, do the least bit possible just to get it done so you can get on to more pleasing activities. Here we go again: if you choose to do or die, go to ENDING 1. If you choose to do slip shod work, go to ENDING 2.

DECISION B
You plop down on the floor and comfortably lean against the side of your bed and suddenly find yourself in a far away land racing your beautiful mare against the great black stallion, or, finding Uncle Ned behind a tree to rescue you just in time before that mysterious person with the black cape catches you, or….. The next thing you know, you have just turned the last page. You know, the one that says, “The End”? It is also the END of the day and possibly the END of your life as you once knew it as you hear the gravel under the tires as your mom pulls up loaded down with groceries and needing your help to unload. Your face turns white with fear and there’s a knot in the pit of your stomach wishing you could rewind the day and do what you were supposed to. Well you can’t. All you can do, is, face the consequences of your actions – or, the lack of actions in this case. Besides disappointing your mom who just straggled in the doorway with an arm load of groceries, her bulging purse and a hand full of mail and looking like she spent the week fighting giants you are now faced with being grounded for a month from reading books, your list of chores just doubled, of the which you will be completing tomorrow canceling that sleep-over with your bosom friend you were planning. Although you feel that life really did end for you, you have a brand new day ahead with no wrinkles in it….yet.

So, the next day, you get up, and hit those knees to the floor as you ask the Lord to please help you to be more trustworthy today. You put your shoulders back, your chin up and determination swells within you as you begin that new list of chores. Reread SCENARIO A and then choose the RIGHT decision…the one you should have chosen yesterday.

ENDING 1
As the Lord works through your willing and dutiful hands, He is pleased to see you complete each job. The dishes are dried, the glasses spit-shined and gently stored, the living room smells fresh and could be tested with white gloves. Even the legs of the end tables, and the books on the bookshelf are free of dust. The fridge is ready for the groceries that will soon fill it’s sparkling glass shelves. You even go above and beyond your call of duty by wiping down the top and outside of the fridge. The toilet and sinks, even the corners are scrubbed and scoured, the tub is perfectly shiny and the faucets polished. Not only is the laundry clean, but hang-up clothes are ironed and hung, and the rest folded and put away. And your ROOM!!! Oh, that was a chore! But as  you stand back to enjoy the fruit of your labor, sweat drips from your brow, loose strands of hair fall in your face and you smell like you really are in need of a shower! DESPERATELY!

Suddenly, you hear the gravel under the tires as your mom pulls up loaded down with groceries and needing your help to unload. your mom straggles in the doorway with arms loaded with bags of groceries, her bulging purse and a hand full of mail and looking like she spent the week fighting giants. Although you’re tired and would like to just plop into bed, you realize that she’s had just as hard working day as you have and so you quickly relieve her of her burdens and together you get the groceries in the house, unpacked and put away.

You both plop down onto the couch exhausted and begin to talk about supper. SUPPER!!! Oh NOOO! But just then, your dad comes walking in. The grand hero has just brought home some pizza!!!

As you and your family have evening devotions, you give the Lord a sleepy smile as you thank Him for helping you to overcome today.

THE END


ENDING 2
You swoop the book up and shove it onto the bookshelf tearing the cover. Oops! It’s a library book, so now you have to repair it and hope they won’t notice. After hanging up your jacket, you conveniently use your feet to slide a small pile of clothes under your bed out of sight. What you didn’t see was, there was a bag of chips in that pile – a tempting treat for the mouse that your mother has been trying to trap for the past two weeks. How nice of you to keep it nice and plump. As quickly as you can, you unload the dishwasher, and pile them into the cabinet some of them still dripping. Attempting to gather as many glasses as you can, you drop one on your toe and glass is scattered everywhere! Going for the broom and dustpan, you inevitably step on a piece of glass and, yep, it’s blood! Go for the Band-Aid, trip over the laundry basket stuffed full of now wrinkled clothes you had just removed from the dryer. You twisted your ankle so you sit there for a few minutes holding on to it as if it would fall off if you didn’t. Feeling better, you head for that Band-Aid, and now you have to scrub the carpet where the blood dripped. As your rag swipes around the contents of the fridge, it knocks down a bowl of week-old salsa which quickly drips down onto the next shelf and down the sides of the fridge. Can’t get away with nothin’ can you? There’s a reason for that saying, “haste makes waste”.  It’s getting late, so you take a feather duster and just quickly “dust” the living room. The dust poofs up in the air, swirls around and settles right back down onto the furniture. Just then, you remember that you still need to put the rest of the glasses away. So you do all nice and spotted. A simple spray of vinegar and towel would take care of that, but, you don’t have time.

As you plop down onto the couch, sweat drips from your brow, loose strands of hair fall in your face and you smell like you really are in need of a shower! DESPERATELY! Not to mention you are also needing a new bandaid.

Suddenly, you hear the gravel under the tires as your mom pulls up loaded down with groceries and needing your help to unload. Your mom straggles in the doorway with arms loaded with bags of groceries, her bulging purse and a hand full of mail and looking like she spent the week fighting giants. Your mother asks you to help her unload the groceries. Feeling rather grumpy, you fail to even look into your mother’s tired eyes as you proceed to open your mouth quite wide to let her know how much work you’ve done today. Then you give a big sigh, and like a bedraggled martyr using the last bit of strength left in your body, you sacrifice it all to help your mom unload the groceries.

You both plop down in the living room exhausted and begin to talk about supper. SUPPER!!! Oh NOOO! But just then, your dad comes walking in. The grand hero has just brought home some pizza!!!

As you and your family have evening devotions, your mother thanks the Lord for all the help you gave her today and asks Him to bless you abundantly. I need not say that way back in the back of your conscience, a tinge of guilt hangs there because you KNOW you didn’t do a very good job.

THE END


What difference does it make? Why is it so important to do a job well done – exactly the way it’s supposed to be done? You might think, "What does it matter if it isn't perfect? What difference does it make just as long as the job gets done?" It does make a difference.  The Word tells us it does that whatever we are doing, we should always do our very best!

And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus,
giving thanks to God and the Father by him.
~ Colossians 3:17

And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men;
Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ.
~ Colossians 3:23-24

Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might;
for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in the grave, whither thou goest.
~ Ecclesiastes 9:10


Think about this: If we practice always doing our best and never permitting ourselves to do a sloppy, half-way job in whatever task that is given us, in time, doing a good job will become more automatic with less effort. For example, when you’re doing your school work, do you take the time to write with your best handwriting? or do you just try to get the job done? If you take the time to write neatly, erasing your mistakes completely (not just writing over the mistakes or “sort of” erasing them) making it your goal to have beautiful handwriting, although it seems so tedious, in time, you will be able to write beautifully with ease and without even thinking about it.

So it is with every aspect of our lives. Make it your goal to do a beautiful job whether you are doing your school work, household chores, preparing a meal, making a gift for someone, playing an instrument, working at a job, etc.  And if you continue to strive to do your best, you will be training your eyes, your mind, your whole being till it just becomes a graceful part of your character enabling you to easily recognize when something isn’t right.


57-0818  TIME.TESTED.MEMORIALS.OF.GOD
You see, a man's character is made known by his works. Whatever you are, your works prove what you are. No matter how much you testify, whatever you say, pro or con, that has nothing to do with it; your works tell what you are, tells what you are inside. Every job that you do manifests what you are. And you business men, if you just do a patched up job, see what I mean, just a halfway job, don't do that. If you can't do it right, don't do it at all. That's right.
When you come to Christ, if you can't absolutely sell out lock, stock, and barrel, and come to Christ, don't come at all. But when you really want to be a Christian, stand out, make it real. That's what God wants you to be. And that'll--that'll prove... Your works will prove what your character is. Your character is known by the works that you do.
                                                                                  

Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
~ Proverbs 31:31




Knights in Shining Armor

In history, you've heard of the well respected and noble knights in shining armor bearing long spears, riding grand powerful horses, fighting impossible battles, winning the greatest victories over the kingdom's enemies. But how did they become such victorious knights? They didn't become knights overnight. It took many years. In 
fact, they started as little boys called Pages. At around the age of six or seven a boy, who was of noble lineage, (family of the king) would report to the local lord's castle or manor to begin his training as a knight. He was trained by another knight, baron, or lord. There he started out learning simple things like table manners, care and maintenance of armor and weapons, and how to care for a horse. He would also learn how to read and how  to appreciate music or even play the lute . Then he would start learning how to hunt and how to hawk.

For precept must be upon precept, precept upon precept;
line upon line, line upon line; here a little, and there a little
Isaiah 28:10

At around the age of thirteen, if the boy has learned to do these small tasks well, the Page is then promoted to Squire. He is assigned as the personal assistant to a knight. Because he's getting bigger and starting to develop into his manhood, his training would focus much more on weapons, horsemanship and combat. One thing that  was very seriously focused on was the rules of tactics for horse mounted combat. This was the most essential aspect of combat for a knight. It was this mounted combat that made a knight a feared and respected foe. Finally, if the Squire had learned his lessons well, and done his very best in every task that was given him whether great or small, he could then become a Knight.

He that is faithful in that which is least is faithful also in much:
and he that is unjust in the least is unjust also in much.
Luke 16:10

The ceremony of becoming a knight often lasted several days. He would fast and pray. During the actual knighting ceremony the knight would swear allegiance to God and to his lord He would receive presents such as a sword, a pair of spurs, armor, and a cloak.  At the end of the ceremony the king would tap 
the squire on the shoulders with the flat of a sword blade and he would become a knight. Now that he became a knight, do you think that he could now relax and enjoy his new status? No, the life of a knight was a life of constant vigilance in combat and constant striving toward improvement in the eyes of others.


“A little neglect may breed mischief,...
for want of a nail, the shoe was lost;
for want of a shoe the horse was lost;
and for want of a horse the rider was lost.”

Benjamin Franklin (1706 - 1790)

Poor Richard's Almanack, 1758

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

The Mighty Hunter

I just had to share this. This is our mighty hunter Miko. Her prey...a fly. I find it amazing how spry and youthful she is in spite of her age. In kitty years she's about 70!!! I guess it goes to show that you are only as old as you think yourself to be. She does have her senior moments though. 

Here comes... the mighty hunter!

One ear....

Two ears...

One paw...

Two paws...

and LUNGE!!!!

miss.

In case you didn't see the fly... here is.






THE BROKEN CANNING JAR

Now this is a broken jar,
A very sad sight I would say,
It busted in the boiling water,
While I was canning tomatoes the other day.

It just couldn’t stand the pressure,
And simply couldn’t take the heat,
Although it was used for a noble cause,
It has sunk to the bottom in defeat.

Now the tomatoes are all wasted,
The fruit of my labor all lost,
The mess it made needs to be cleaned,
And the jar will have to be tossed.

But may I learn a valuable lesson,
From the jar that gave up the ghost,
When the pressure’s crushing and the heat’s hottest,
It’s in my weakest hour, that I need His strength the most.

~ jw

February 7, 2014

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Castle Keepers October Meeting ~ Tamales!

Tamales are a Mexican tradition usually starting in the Fall. Grocery stores are extra stocked up with prepared masa in the meat department, husks and dry red chili pods and meat - especially pork roasts. My mother-in-law who lives in Mexico taught me how to make tamales when my husband and I were first married. Since Mexican cooks (especially the old-timers) don't usually use a recipe, it took me a while to figure out the unspoken secrets to making those moist, flavorful morsels. 

Since Fall has come once more, and I like to bring our tamales to our yearly October hunting camp, I decided this would be a great time to teach our Castle Keeper Ladies how to make them. 




Donned in their aprons and ready to make a mess (ready or not we certainly did make a delicious mess) the girls brought their choice of meat and I taught them how to make tamales.



Cleaning the soaked husks


The dry chili pods with their stems and seeds removed have to be....


... cooked till soft. Do you see my apron I made especially for the occasion?


Add the chili to the meat


I like to add some veggies to my meat.


Yours Truly caught candid

The coordinator of our club sets up a challenging goal for each girl to achieve by the next meeting. September’s challenge was for each girl to make a salsa they had never made before. Let me tell you… those girls came up with some really great salsas – some of which I had never thought of before till we started researching recipes. 


Proud salsa makers. Great job, ladies!

After the ladies were exhausted of their energy, and about half way through the tamale making process, I had prepared a Mexican themed lunch of spinach and cheese tamales, beans, rice, chips, horchata – a Mexican rice drink,  along with some complimentary items brought by the ladies as well as the salsas that the girls were challenged to make. Here's a few pics of my daughter making Spinach tamales.



I grabbed the wrong cheese and used Mozzarella instead of  Monterrey Jack cheese which I usually grate and just add to the masa. I like Monterrey Jack better. The Mozzarella was too chewy.


Approximately 5 dozen tamales!

Then, on the girls worked keeping those tamales rollin’. After everyone went home, I heard reports of lots of happy families eating their scrumptious Tamales.


The finished product ready to take home, steamed and quickly devoured by their families.



I gave each of our girls the recipe and made Shrinky Dink tags with Ephesians 9:10 written on them. I've always loved Shrinky Dinks since I was a little girl. So glad to still get to make them. 

Unfortunately, Tamales help one to expand especially when eaten in excess which one does tend to do because they’re so yummy! Sooo, October’s challenge from our coordinator is to exercise 4 days a week for 20 minutes to help work those extra calories back off! After all, we don't want to be wearing those tamales on our hips, now do we?

Castle Keepers September Meeting ~ Aprons

Meeting once a month, our first girls club of homemakers in training (now called Castle Keepers) was to learn how to make aprons using an existing apron as the pattern. 

One of the mothers of the 9 girls in the club taught us how to trace around the apron adding ½ to 1 inch bigger for the seam using a hem gauge. I’ve had this awesome little tool around for YEARS but never knew what it was for. So glad I know now, as this will come in handy. Don’t you just love tools and gadgets?




I really enjoyed seeing the diversity of each girl’s creativity. The variety of colors, the different shaped aprons, some lined and some not, some with bias edges etc.



To keep our energy (and patience) fueled up, our hostesses served us a simple but delicious lunch and gave each girl a sewn bag filled with dried apples and a little book mark. 

I had suggested that the girls then go home and make another apron on their own to help cement the skill they had just learned. Here are some of the beautiful creations they we came up with and brought to October's meeting:


Aren't they just darling?